Tied by my own Hands: The Woman's Guide to Shibari Self-Tying for Body Liberation, Emotional Healing, and Radical Self-Love (No Partner Required)

For years, I watched women turn away from Shibari—not because they lacked interest, but because they lacked a partner. "I don't have anyone to tie me," they'd say, as if their own hands weren't enough. I watched the rope world perpetuate a dangerous myth: that this transformative practice requires someone else's permission, someone else's hands, someone else's vision of your body. I got tired of seeing women wait at the gate of their own healing. So I wrote the book I wished existed—the one that says you don't need anyone else to reclaim your body, your pleasure, or your power.Tied by My Own Hands isn't just a how-to guide; it's a manifesto for women who refuse to outsource their embodiment. Drawing on years of teaching Shibari and witnessing its profound psychological and somatic effects, I've created the first comprehensive resource that centers women's autonomous practice. This book dismantles the partner myth, teaches you to create sacred container for yourself, and guides you through the emotional alchemy of self-binding. Whether you're healing from trauma, reclaiming pleasure, or simply tired of waiting for permission to exist fully in your body, this book meets you exactly where you are.Your body has been waiting for you to come home to it. The rope is already in your hands—you just needed someone to tell you that you're allowed to use it. This book is your permission slip, your roadmap, and your companion on a journey from fragmentation to wholeness. Stop waiting. Start tying. Your revolution begins now when you click the ‘buy’ button. Read more